When you start to miss someone....
Whenever you find yourself starting to miss someone you really loved… But perhaps someone who just didn’t appreciate you. Someone who just didn’t care about how you felt. Someone who you loved so much, but someone who just treated you like an option. Stop for a moment, and remember… Remember the disrespect. Remember all the times when your feelings didn’t matter and were invalidated. Remember how your worth was completely disregarded. Remember when your boundaries were ignored time and time again. Remember what they deliberately and knowingly did to break your trust over and over again. Remember all the times you begged them for the basics and you begged them to treat you as though they loved you, but they still refused. Remember how it made you feel. Remember just how much it hurt. Remember how disappointed you felt. Remember how betrayed you felt. Because this was real. This was how you really felt. This was someone’s version of love for you... It’s normal to miss someone who you onc...