Being NICE…isn’t Weakness at all!!



Today I will get out of the subject but not too far, as something has come up. I wrote yesterday on my facebook account in the status bar “Being NICE... Isn’t Weakness at ALL!!!” after writing it, I received a lot of messages from my friends saying their opinion on what I wrote.
That made me thinks on today’s post to you as I want to share this with you all.
I wrote the quote at the very beginning from my deep heart, it was something that I felt and didn’t expect the comments they wrote to me about. I wrote it because I had a recent experience through.
After reading all their comments, I found that some were with and/or against it. One of them told me, yes being nice is not really weakness, it is how strong you are, how you can deal with others whoever they are in a nice way. Being nice sometimes is a process you take because of you. It is an attitude you choose to be a leader with, in your life. But on the other hand, some others told me, yes being nice is not weakness at all, but it is the weakest thing you can use. People are using me when I am nice.
Oh God!! I can not believe what is around us in life but it is reality!!
It is a thing that we have to accept. Sometimes, people take the NICE ATTITUDE as an advantage of your NICE way to step on you and that’s the big misunderstanding here. Being Nice is not weakness at all and that what I was meant by it all meanings. I am nice, because I am so. Not because I want to gain someone for choosing to be so. I am nice because, I have to be nice whoever you are, the person I am dealing with. The people around us in life when they take advantage of your nice way, they are the wrong not YOU!! The mistake is from them, and we will not be wrong like them.
So, let’s decide here something to be very clear of, the nice attitude we choose, is not a way to release rights that I already have in life. I am nice but I will not leave rights, will not go with others in their way. I am nice but I will continue my road in my nice way. I am nice but I am assertive and put others where I stand…and continue in my nice and make others do what I want…
Till we meet…

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